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4 Top skills to overcome your fears

Face your fears and overcome

Overcome your fears with these simple and effective skills.

It may not always seem evident, but most people are afraid.

The significant contrast between you and all the productive individuals you see is that they faced their fears.

They made a decision to work through any issues they had to keep moving forward.

Not meeting your fears will always cause you to miss out on many things in your life.

One of the saddest things to happen is to look back over your life with regret and disappointment with what could have been.

Either you will allow your fear to control you or you will manage the fear, the choice is yours.

Here are 4 top tips for overcoming your fears and achieving your goals.

1. Take Baby steps

It really doesn’t matter what your fears are, whether it’s speaking in public or jumping from an airplane, you don’t have to do it all in one go.

Consider the things you want to achieve and then set up some small steps you can take.

With each small achievement, you make you’ll be increasing your confidence and decreasing your fears.

This is step is a simple but very effective start to overcome your fears.

2. No Need to do it alone

There isn’t any rule that says you must hide your fear and deal with it by yourself.

It would be wise to build a network of friends and family, or colleagues that will be rooting for you and cheering you on in your accomplishments.

This is a perfect opportunity to enlist the help of a coach, mentor, or therapist to get some professional advice.

It’s also essential to seek professional help if you have any anxiety issues you find overwhelming.

Be kind to yourself don’t leave things do what is ever necessary to get the support you need.

3. Emphasize the positive

Having a positive mindset is a powerful repellent for fears and worry.

Take time to cultivate your mind for success by reading and listening to motivational messages.

Learn to communicate positive affirmations to your mind as often as possible.

Getting caught up with any negative thinking will cause you to spiral making things worse and increasing helplessness.

Be mindful of what is going on around you.

Deliberately change your mindset and expectations to focus on abundance and success.

Most of the battle is won when you learn to accept that you deserve success and wealth.

Continually concentrate your energy and intentions on getting there.

4. Rewrite the story

This is a perfect time and opportunity to rewrite your story and give fear the boot.

Seeing yourself as a competent, successful person makes it very difficult for self-doubt and niggling self-talk to get a toe-hold in your life.

Take control of your narrative; make a decision to be fearless, confident, and successful.

Jot down all the negative thoughts that circulate in your mind.

Make a list, and for every negative thought, write a positive one next to it.

Beat down your self-doubt by jotting down your skills, your strengths, and good points.

You’ll soon quickly realize that they outnumber any weakness you may have; it won’t be long before you’re in control and holding the reigns to your own success story.

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About Mark Csabai

Mark Csabai is a certified New Insights Life coach and NLP practitioner. He works with clients locally and internationally. With over twenty years of experience helping people break free from negative thinking and self-sabotaging behaviour. Mark is able to facilitate deep inner changes that will ultimately sky-rocket you to the next level of your life. He will help you formulate the desired outcome to move you from where you are to where you want to be.