What to do when you don’t know what to do

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Eight things you can do when you don’t know what to do

Get unstuck quickly and effectively

We’ve all experienced the feeling of being stuck.

It’s easy to get stuck when no option seems to be the right option to take.

It may be a perfect time to start a home business, but being an employee may give more financial security.

Sometimes the better options may be less noticeable.

Sadly, not making decisions in  timely manner may have detrimental consequences.

However, having more time, you can develop more efficient solutions.

The shorter the time, the fewer options, none of which may be very good.

Here are some ideas to keep in mind when you don’t know what to do:

1. Know your values.

Those who are well in-tune with their values have a much easier time making decisions.

Knowing your values will help you to respond to situations with more clarity and decisiveness.

Furthermore, it’s tougher to make a choice when you’re unclear and lack a stable view of yourself and what’s important to you.

Keeping your highest value in mind will help you decide on the direction you take

2. Have goals.

Knowing exactly where you’re going, most of the options can be eliminated quickly.

Does a particular possibility or situation bring you closer to reaching your goal?

In addition, the more your decisions are based around your goals, the more likely you are to accomplish them.

Keep your goals current and fresh in your mind.

3. Collect the information you require.

Wise choices require the right information.

Most of us either fail to gather enough information or we’re forever stuck on this step.

Therefore, depending on the type of issue you are facing, it may be wise to do some research to find out more about what is the best option to take.

The primary goal here is to look at the situation from as many angles as possible.

Your research will also help you uncover any possible pitfalls and problems that may exist now and in the future.

  • Knowing yourself and your goals can dramatically reduce the amount of time needed to navigate your information-gathering efforts.

4. Understand your fear of failure.

It’s common to shun actions that you believe may fail. Ensure you’re not basing your decisions too much on the likelihood of success.

Understand that failure is when you give up, rather understand it as feedback and use it to learn and grow.

For instance, learning from pitfalls and mistakes will help you to make more informed decisions next time.

  • Avoid allowing a little uncertainty to prevent you from fully living your life.

There is no failure only feedback

5. Keep the long-term in mind.

Many individuals are shortsighted and ignore long-term outcomes.

Everything you do today will determine tomorrow’s outcome/

Prepare a foundation for the future today.

You may choose the laid-back option today to straighten things out down the road.

However, it’s generally harder to change course once you’ve gained momentum.

  • Remind yourself to focus on the big picture, the end result of your journey.

6. Consider the risks.

Managing risk isn’t just for investments. All decisions carry some element of risk.

Consider what’s at stake before making a final decision.

7. Set a deadline.

We’re all used to deadlines, whether they relate to a project at work or choosing a vacation destination.

Set realistic timelines for your decisions so you don’t overwhelm yourself.

In addition to setting your deadlines, do your best to stick to it and be aware of any deviations that may occur.

8. Make a choice.

If you’re still stuck after applying all the other suggestions, choose something.

All the options are likely to produce a similar outcome.

Pick one and begin taking action. Failing to choose is choosing to fail.

  • Without a dedicated and robust decision, no progress can be made.
    It is infinitely more beneficial to flip a coin than to fail to choose.

Be proactive and courageous and make that decision!

When you struggle to decide on what to do, you’re essentially stuck with the simplest alternative available.

If you do not choose the life you want to live, it will be determined for you by outside forces.

Stop putting yourself in this position.

Here’s a simple example: Let’s suppose you need to locate a new home to rent.

With a 3-month time limit, you have far more options than the 7-day time limit.

You lose flexibility if you wait too long to make a decision and your choices are minimal.

Now, when you intelligently and conveniently make your choices, your life would be less stressful and more rewarding.

About Mark Csabai

Mark Csabai is a certified New Insights Life coach and NLP practitioner. Mark works with people who struggle with clarity of purpose. He helps them rewire faulty mindset patterns, so, they can live meaningful and fulfilled lives. He works with clients locally and internationally. With over twenty years of experience helping people break free from negative thinking and self-sabotaging behaviour. He will help you formulate the desired outcome to move you from where you are to where you want to be.