Are you overthinking too much?

Overthinking causes anxiety

Overthinking, self-doubt and second-guessing yourself affects millions of people every day.

Maybe you felt like the most straightforward choices, and activities became the highest pressure situations in your life?

Many individuals feel that every choice they face is a situation of high pressure; they overthink everything they do.

They are plagued with anxiety and find it extremely hard to make even the most natural choices, like what to wear to work.

In this article, I’m going to show you a few common signs of overthinking too much in your life, so you can work to rectify it and ease your anxiety.

Continuously seeking approval and confirmation

If you are repeatedly asking friends to help you make decisions, and then follow up by repeatedly asking them if they are sure in their advice.

You likely have an issue with overthinking your choices.

The same applies if you seem to be compulsively seeking permission for the choices you make among your colleagues and loved ones.

Continually asking for confirmation and approval is not only frustrating to those around you but is a clear indication of overthinking.

Over-Explaining

If you often find yourself speaking in circles attempting to explain what you’ve done, how you feel, or a decision that you’ve made, you’re probably overthinking it too much.

Should you feel the need to over-explain all you do, believe, or think, you will probably be nervously overthinking too much in your everyday life.

Over-Apologising

Are you continuously apologising for things, even if it’s not your fault? Over-apologising is a typical example of overthinking everything.

If this is true of you, then you are anxiously overthinking everything, even if it’s your unvoiced thoughts and ideas.

Over-Analysing

Continually over analysing conversations, situations and decisions etc. can do more harm than good.

It creates paralysis and prevents you from moving forward if you are concerned about every conversation or situation you find yourself in.

If you continuously ask others to assist you in determining what the possible outcomes may be, then you are likely over analysing things.

Jumping to the Worst Conclusions

We can all be guilty of jumping to conclusions from time to time.

But if you discover yourself doing this continuously, your mind may be trying to tell you something.

If you immediately jump to the worst conclusion in every situation, most probably an illogical one, you will perhaps be struggling with anxiously overthinking.

What to Do About It

If you identify with most of the items on this list, you’re probably struggling with overthinking.

Many things can cause one to overthink things too much, but mostly it is when we struggle with anxiety.

Initially, being aware of the issue is half the challenge, while the other half is looking for assistance and working on it.

If you feel you can’t work through your anxiety yourself or you may just need some guidance, see a life coach or a therapist to help you through it.

It’s not a simple feat, but if you’re working on it, you can overcome your anxiety and lastly put an end to your behaviour.

Seek support

If you find even the most straightforward situation stressful in your life, there’s a good chance you are struggling with over analysing too much.

Over analysing even the simplest decision or situation can cause extra stress and strain on your already anxious mind, making everything worse much.

Should you find yourself exhibiting any of the behaviours I’ve listed in this article?

Please do yourself a favour and speak to a professional or ask for help from your loved ones.

Overcoming your anxiety and stopping your overthinking and worrying is a challenging task, but the advantages are worth the effort.

I hope you found this article helpful in identifying the source of your anxiety, may it give you the courage to seek out the assistance you need to work through it.

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About Mark Csabai

Mark Csabai is a certified NLP practitioner and Mindset coach. He works with clients locally and internationally. With over twenty years of experience helping people break free from negative thinking and self-sabotaging behaviour. Mark is able to facilitate deep inner changes that will ultimately sky-rocket you to the next level of your life.He will help you formulate the desired outcome for the process of change to move you from where you are to where you want to be.